Let Today Be The First Day You Fight Back...

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Great Friday to you all readers!!!! I got up this morning with an urgency to get this post to you all. Sometimes when you feel like all odds are against you and all bets are off; remember the fight that's been lying dormant in you. Sometimes we have to activate the one thing in our life that won't and has never changed, The Word! What better way to fight the enemy, haters, this life that tries to take you out at times, the job and the people on it who look down at you because of your steady elevation, the people who won't see your change because they continue to try to keep you in your past! This list can go on and on.


John 10:10 says; The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. So what makes you think that it will just go away. When you've had about all you can take and you have either gone through enough or lost too much; you will begin to fight. The fight you will have will be for all of those words, actions, or things that were meant to kill you and your weapon will be with the word of life! The scripture goes on to say; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full. We have to realize that nothing God gives us comes without a price nor a fight. I got up ready for battle this morning because I won't allow the enemy to take away what I have cried, fasted, and prayed for and better yet worked for! So, If you have come back in you like I think you do; I believe you will square up and prepare to take a stand. The word says in Psalm 119:105; Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path. So people walk with assurance that it is well.

Today is Free For All Friday and as always I have a hot one for you all! In the words of Mali Music; " I am a bride yes, God can mold me; yes I'm saved and my body's holy, Yes I was guilty; but Christ died for me. Don't believe the lie y'all the devils' phony. He just mad cuz he cant hold me no mo' God opened doors he cant close tryin' take me out yeah he came close I gotta word now y'all and I'm throwin' bows." So with that being said; lace up, check your swag in the mirror, and pat yourself on the back because you lived to fight another day! In the end you Win! Stay focused and enjoy your weekend!



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Let Today Be The First Day You SMILE...

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Hello!!! Once again I have been kept away from my most favorite people, my readers!!! Never fear; I'm here! I pray that you all have been enjoying life and all that it has to offer. Sometimes life can give you the one-two punch and try to knock you out, but you have to remember that it happens to the best of us. Some people don't know what it's like just to be happy and smile and some of us have gone through so much that smiling is a challenge within itself. I have a remedy for that! The best pick me up (for those who may be experiencing the holiday blues or just have been through so much that you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel)  is to start thinking how bad things could be, how your children's joy makes you happy, how the people you love always seem to be there for you, and if you can't find anything tangible; just remember that you opened your eyes this morning,  had the activity of your limbs, and got another chance to live! I won't hold you all long, but the holidays are here so enjoy your families and be safe. Today's Free For All Jam is an oldie but a goodie! Maybe by the time you finish reading this I will have brought back some fond memories and put a smile on that beautiful face. SMILE  it's contagious and besides it just makes you feel good!

Jaida @ The Father/Daughter Dance

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Let Today Be The First Day... Learning to accept who is for you

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Hello all! I know! I've been away yet again, but please be sure that I was always thinking of you guys while I was busy at work. Thanksgiving is near and its time for family, friends, good food, and fellowship. I find myself reflecting a lot of times around this time of year, because people that were close to me or dear to me are either no longer with us or I have been separated from them for one reason or another. Lets just get to the meat of it. When you elevate or have life changes, people around you tend to change or they are not fit to go to that next level with you. I am learning to accept these things as blessings and count it all joy that I am no longer in the place that I used to be. I used to think that "FRIENDS" would be the ones that were the happiest for me, but sometimes you have to sit back and reevaluate that word. I heard a PJ Morton song that summed it up.

 PJ Morton

He simply said this; "Friends I tell you how you know they're real, Friends through the hard times they still are there even through the bad times, Friends will love you all the time". My God! and I can back this up by giving you the scripture Proverbs 17:17  says; ¹⁷A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity. The bitter side of that is that you have to evaluate those "FRIENDS" who are suspect. PJ goes on to tell us; "Check the motives and I hope you know this everybody doesn't really care. Some are there to get what they get from you, but they won't do anything for you"! This is the story of my life! I'm thankful that once I begin to transition and God begin to deal with me he showed me and is still showing me who is for me. There is nothing like having a strong support system, but they have to be on the same page as you and even though they can't yet see your vision; they believe in it as much as you do and most importantly they believe in you!

You may lose people you never could have imagined losing, but this is where you learn how to love people from a distance. Don't hold any ill will in your heart towards them because they don't get it! Everyone won't get it , but that's OK. Today's lesson was Mathematics (The name and the game of life) as PJ says. So I want to encourage you and say; Continue to move no matter what and know that it's a blessing sometimes that weights are dropped off of you. The higher you go in life in turn makes the circle of "FRIENDS" you have that much smaller. So, don't concern yourself with what "they" say about your blessings and how much you have changed. Change is good for anyone as long as it is a positive and productive one. But what I would leave with you is; Just as much as you want those "true" FRIENDS, you too much show yourself to be the same. Proverbs 18:24; A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.

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Today I am sitting here reflecting and have come to the realization that in order to let today be the 1st day you 1st have to make the choice to live!

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Don't take it personal...

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Lol! You may wonder why I am up laughing at 5:55am! Well I will tell you! First of all I am laughing because I've been trying to rest and not get on this computer and it's been like that diet you try to maintain, but keep seeing the donut you love and know you shouldn't eat. I've been a busy little bee this week and apologize for my absence. It is crunch time and if you don't know I am having an event here in my city to benefit Cancer and MS (Multiple Sclerosis). The event will be held Feb. 17th-18th in Albany, Ga and the out pour of support has been overwhelming and I'm thankful that things have fallen into place.

I'm learning to except people for who they are and love them inspite of, because they too will have to grow and become just what it is God wants them to be. So, don't count people out just because they are not where you are. If it means anything to you think about the one who no one believed in and see where they are now. Makes a little sense huh? Yea, I know it's not Friday and it's almost time to wind down, so I won't bore you today. But, While you get ready for the world make sure you give yourself a check up from the neck up and turn your swag switch on and leave it there! So smile, the weekend is almost here baby!

God allows things to happen to open your eyes, make you stronger, and help you become wiser. So, take the bitter with the sweet and as the saying goes what doesn't kill you, will definitely make you stronger! Enjoy your weekend and make it a great one! For more information on the 1st Annual It's A "S.H.E." Thing (sharing hope and experiences) Benefit Weekend visit the event website at: www.wix.com/itsa_shething/benefit Enjoy your Friday Free For All Jam!! See you guys next week!

Collette Jenkins (Owner) Chozen To Conquer Cosmetics

& Guest Speaker for It's A "S.H.E." Thing Benefit

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This has got to stop...

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Hello my friends!! Your favorite authors, author has been under the weather this week, but nevertheless God is a Healer! It is 4am in my town and that tells you my day has just begun. I have missed you all so much these past few days and I have missed out on so much, but my health is very important to me. So, while I have been green (not so well) I have had to do a self evaluation again! Yes, it happens at times and yes you have to go back and re-do everything you thought you had made a conscious effort to correct about you all over again. No sweat my pet (in my Steven Q. Erkel voice) this just shows your dedication to ensure that you are headed in the right direction to be the best you; that you can be. I always use my personal experiences for tools to possibly help someone else. So here goes!

I took a conversation between myself and a very close friend of mine that was in confidence and because I knew one of the parties, thought I was looking out for them, and shared some of that conversation. Yea I know some of you may be saying; "well doesn't seem hurtful to me" or " whats the big deal"? Well, I will tell you how that small thing could have ruined the trust that my friend had in me. I not only compromised our friendship, but I talked about someone whom I don't know and hadn't given a fair chance. I thought I was being a friend and looking out for my friend by telling them about the conversation I had, but in reality I did more damage than good. Now, this is where we see who is mature and mentally grown enough to make this right wrong. If you said; "well I would just apologize to my friend who shared the info with me", that's a start but that's just apart of mending your wrong.

I had to apologize to my friend who shared the information with me, then I had to apologize to the person to whom I spoke about and even if they don't accept your apology you have to do what's RIGHT! Put all egos aside, and remember that you too have had issues in your past, have lied, have done others wrong, and have wanted to be treated fairly and justly by others. I was convicted and that's just what God does to his children when we are in the wrong, but it is up to us to go back and make those things that were made wrong; right. I prayed about it and now my conscious is clear. I made a simple note to myself and that was; " I'm learning that shutting the hell up sometimes is just a good idea".

Many things could have happened due to me not being concerned about others feelings. I could have killed someone (spiritually), I could have stunted my growth as a believer, I could have damaged someone who has already probably had enough go on in their lives as it is. The list could go on and on. So, normally Fridays are dedicated to Fun, but whats more fun than knowing you made the right decision! The song for today should give you all the motivation you need! Whatever it is, it's not too late to get it right. Be mindful of what we say, there is so much power in your words!

Myself and Sharrod Hart (I Love My Readers)!!!

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Just say thank you...

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My weekend was way more exciting than expected folks! I hope you all missed me as much as I missed you. The city was so alive and everywhere I turned I saw a smiling face and people showing love to one another. Have you ever asked yourself the question; " am I too friendly or am I too loving to others"? Well, I asked myself that very question this weekend. I'm able to separate true relationships from casual ones, yet that doesn't stop me from being positive and nice towards others. It took some time for me to get to this place and I will say this; I am happier now to say that I can. Which leads me to what I want to discuss today.

I realized this weekend that no matter what others may think of the way I show love, I do it because it's genuine and it comes from a pure place. I'm well aware that some of the people I love on may not reciprocate that same love back to me; in public smiling and behind closed doors degrading me. One thing you have to learn is at the end of the day you are responsible for your actions and you can't control how others act. So, if you're led to say thank you, I appreciate you, I love you, or you're needed; do so and not be tied to the thought of how others may view what you are doing. People like to know that you notice them and their acts and if they have helped you even the least you should let them know you care. One of the things that is not guaranteed in life is time and we take for granted that it's not promised to any of us.

So in your search to find the good in others and appreciate kind gestures or others will to help you become a better person remember what I always say; "Love isn't Love, till you've given it away". God loved us inspite of our situations so at some point we are responsible for ensuring we give that love away. Loving those you know who despise you is a true test of character and the God in you! Make the devil the liar that he already is.

Edward Wingfield (creator of Skunk Bro. Clothing) & Dyshelda Leonard (owner of Fancy Boutique)

Homecoming 2011



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It's that time again!!!

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It's Friday!!!!!!! Wake up and get excited about your weekend. You guys know that I'm not long winded on Fridays because this is our time to wind down together and give a big woo-sah to our busy week. This week was filled with greatness and I am only anticipating what the rest of the weekend will bring. It's homecoming here in Albany, Ga for the Mighty Albany State University Rams and you can smell the victory in the air. So, to all my grinders; button that shirt, straighten your tie, put on your happy face, enjoy this jam, and know that no matter what happens today it will all be over once you punch the clock. Enjoy your weekend wherever you are, find something creative and inspiring to do. The thought for today is: Life is for the living, so if you're going to do it; do it well! Great Friday to you all! Look out for next Friday's jam it's sure to take you out of the box!

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Can't help it, If I wanted to...

 

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Wednesday it is!!! Heeey all of my midday humpers. Maybe your day has gotten off to a sluggish start but I am here with my "S" on my chest (cape included w/ wind for special effects) to the rescue! I am a little late today because it's my moms birthday and I had to be the annoying daughter that I am to her at times, but it's all in love. Sometimes we get so frustrated and irritated with the actions of others and even with things we may do ourselves at times. But, in times like this you have to remember whats important. Happiness is so much better than sorrow, a smile is better than a frown so on this fine day even though it is a mid week bustle; find the greater good in it all. I woke up this morning thinking of what would be a good motivation for my readers today and it's this simple; find someone and say something good to them, you never know who you may be helping. Sometimes it's good to think of others besides ourselves. 1 Corinthians 13 says: ¹³ And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love. Smile, it's almost over! Hope you enjoy the groove!

Jaida @ 3yrs old

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I Got It...

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Well, well, well!!! Tuesday is here and I am so happy this morning to update you all on today. I had the privilege to witness the awesome ministry of Kierra "KiKi" Sheard" on last night here in my hometown and it was nothing short of an experience! Remember that word because it is in that word that I have been seeking Gods face. When you are a leader you can't help what is inside of you and at times it gets trying because there is so much to be expected out of us. But, I found out last night during my worship that even we have to be refreshed and replenished to carry out our works.1 Corinthians 6:19-20 says: ¹⁹ Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; ²⁰ you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies. I have to hold myself responsible for I am a vessel and weather I like it or not I am charged to be a better example to Gods people.

Maybe this was what I had been waiting on for the past two days. So, the fact that I am alone (single) is a good reason for me to continue to ask God to hide me and keep me, even when I don't want to be kept. Denying myself at times is a test within itself, but if I have to do that so that God gets the glory out of it; I will. Truly amazing how he loves us after we have turned our backs on him so many times before when it wasn't beneficial to us. I thrive to be honest about my walk and real. I am guilty of it at one point in my life or another. So, If I can leave any encouragement with you all on today; I will say that God is real and he is here waiting on our yes so he can take control and truly show us how much he loves us. Don't learn to be a circumstantial praiser; meaning you only praise God when things are going good in your life. "You see the depths of my heart and you love me the same" You are amazing God.

My Daughter Jaida & I

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It's Over Now...

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I haven't been sleeping well for the past two days and normally when this happens I have to pay attention. For some reason God deals with me at weird times, but I know that everything he does; he does it in his own way. I've been so anxious about the blog that I actually for some reason have every topic I will discuss this week. This was something I never anticipated doing in my life, yet here I am and I couldn't be happier to share my experiences and good news. What I don't ever want to do is forget. We get so caught up in ourselves sometimes we forget that it was somebody bigger than you and I who has allowed us the ability to exist. We talk about the goodness of God, how He blesses us, and how we are thankful for everything He does for us; but do we truly take out the time to simply give God our best?

I'm inhaling deep breaths right now because I can be honest even if you won't and say that at times I know I don't. Wanting more of Him and wanting to experience a move unlike any other in my life is where I am now. So, I sit, I wait, and even if I don't hear a word I know that He hears me. I don't ask for riches or fame, but what I ask for is priceless and can't just be handed to me. How many of us take the initiative and take responsibility for ourselves and ask God what is it that we need to do. The answer is very few, because that would require us to step up and take ownership for our actions.

The best thing for us to do is be honest with ourselves. Yes, we make mistakes, yes we fall short; but admitting to it is what frees us and allows us to move forward. Our actions and decisions from that point on will dictate our growth. The encouragement I want to leave you all this morning is to never give up. You may not see the results of your praying or your works, but that does not mean He is not working it out. Delayed does not mean denied! Have a great Monday, do something different today, that will be the beginning of something new!

Charlene and I at book signing

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Wake up!!!!

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It's Friday!! You thought I forgot about you guys huh? Yea right; how could I! I normally don't talk about much on Fridays and for those of you who are new to the site, I typically inspire with my passion; Music! I've been jamming to this song all day on yesterday and couldn't wait to share it with you guys. Hopefully by now some of you are pulling yourselves together to get into business mode, but there is nothing like a "pick me up" and who better to give it to you but me! I hope this song brings a smile to your face, joy to your heart, a snap to your fingers, and bop to your heads out there. Have a great one and remember to Smile! It's contagious.

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Things are not as they seem...

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Well, is it Thursday already! I have been a busy mess this week (lol) and it all settles down once I sit down to update you all. Living is the best thing that any of us can do for ourselves, so I decided to talk about just that; life. I know some of us are not living the lives we expected for ourseleves, but don't let that stop you from giving it your best effort. I've learned that everything in my life that has taken place good or bad was not of my own doing; but of Gods. Sometimes we look at bad things in life and say; "that's nothing but the devil". Have you ever stopped to think if it was God looking out for you? For those that don't know the enemy can't do anything without Gods permission. You say how? Well I will tell you. Look at Job in the bible, he was one of Gods favorites and the devil wanted to make a point to God, so before he could do anything to Job he had to get permission from God. I said that to say this, you are more because of who you belong to. Our lives and our experiences are a testimony to others that no matter how hard things may get, God has the final say.

There may be someone who is feeling like; "why me", well I learned a valuable lesson about that very question when I asked it. If you were not equipt to deal with what life throws your way, you wouldn't go through it. My pastor said something to me that has truly stuck to me and I thank her (yes, I said her) for it. She told me the easiest thing to do is give up because it doesn't require you to do anything. But, the hardest thing to do is STAND when you feel like the floor is about to come from up under you, the walls are about to fall down around you, and everything around you seems like its crumbling. When the dust settles; and I've said this before look around and see who is still there. Everyone is not designed to go through and you have to careful that you don't get lost in your storm. Darkness may come, winds may blow, rain may fall, and even HELL (hail) may fall in your life; just know that He created it all so after the wreckage there is peace and that doesn't always come easy.


Knowing who you are and what you possess is part of the battle. Owning what you possess and walking in that takes you further than you or anyone else could ever imagine. Be the blessing that you already are. Friday is on the way and boy do I have a surprise for you guys! Until then allow God time to just be God in your life!

                                                 My stylist Melanie Dunbar & Myself

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Just let it go...

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I used to have a broken spirit and I used to hold onto hurts from my past so much that if I thought about it, saw it (people), or encountered it in anyway I would be devastated. It was so bad that it would send me right into a depression. Now, while I sat and wallowed in my hurt those people continued to live their lives. Truth be told the majority of the people who have hurt you either don't know the extent or don't care. I always give you real life situations and this all came 8 yrs after my grandmother passed away. As I sat in church on this Mothers Day Sunday in 2010 I could only think of her and then I looked up to see someone for whom I thought I had forgiven, but it was evident at that moment; I hadn't.

There is nothing like fooling yourself and boy did I on this day. The emotions and feelings of what this person had done came rushing back to me and I sat in church and wept, not because of the holy spirit; but because I was experiencing that hurt all over again. See alot of us do this Sunday in and Sunday out go to church with our hurts and issues and instead of letting them go and leaving them there we allow our emotions to take over and reminisce over those things that came to kill us or destroy our lives. After the service I approached that very person and I was more open with them than I had ever been before. I let them know that I thought i had forgiven them, but it was clear there was still unresolved issues and that maybe one day I can and I even told them that I wanted to; just that at that moment I couldn't. It took a lot of praying and asking God to deal with my heart for me to get to a place of being able to see this person and embrace them and not have any alt in my heart towards them. It takes something to just be real with yourself.

I had to learn that in order to say that I walk with God I had to love like God and I also had to forgive like God. I never understood how after all the scrutiny he received, he was able to love past those things and now I do. The scripture says in Matthew 6:14 For if you forgive people their trespasses [their reckless and willful sins, leaving them, letting them go, and giving up resentment], your heavenly Father will also forgive you. I've done things that I should have died for in my lifetime and God saw fit to forgive me, so why can't I do the same when it comes to others? People will do things that we may not understand, but in our hearts we have to be able to forgive them and also love them. That will let you know if you have gotten to a better place. Don't get me wrong, it won't happen overnight, but you have to be willing to LET IT GO!!! I used to bite my lip and not speak to those who have wronged me, but those battles are no longer mine to fight. Remember you are created in love and we have a heart that was created to love. I did it because of this little girl. So, what will be your motivation? Continue to move forward and live.

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What if I'm the problem...

Hello my good friends! I pray that all of your weekends have been exciting. This is a new week, a start, and Monday is a new day! But, I wanted to touch on something that most of us won't admit and some of us are blind to. In our day to day struggles of trying to obtain what we consider happiness and being content with our lives and ourselves, at times we get lost in the midst of it all. Ever had times when it seemed as if everyone was against you and no one saw things your way? Have you ever been so hurt that you could only find the fault in others and not recognize that you may have been the problem all along. Well, to make you feel a little better and not feel as if you are the only one; I was that person once upon a time in my life. Do you see this face!

Yes me! I had the worst attitude and took all of my anger and frustrations that I had from another who had done me wrong and lashed out and hurt a lot of people in  my life.The saying goes; "The truth hurts" and what can be any truer than finding out things about yourself that you don't even like. I was miserable and because of that I didn't care about how  made others feel in the process. It took me being faced with having to look at myself and notice that i was doing more damage than good in my life. I found myself by myself and this was at a very young age. I hated what was done to me so everyone looked like "that person". So, how do we get back to a good place? The first thing in getting things that have gone a rye in your life back right is admitting that there is a problem. Now keep in mind yes there will be those who don't want to see you happy and as we call them "haters", but it won't be them in all cases. So, I had to recognize that I was my own worst enemy! It was like a knife in my stomach, but I had to face the facts. I had to reevaluate things and deal with ME! Since then I was able to move past so much and become a more happier person inside and out. If I could encourage anyone that is reading this and you don't know where to turn, ask God to fix it and even if he has to hide you while you are under construction; then so be it. God is love and if you love God allow him the time to get you to a better place. Continue to shine in the darkest places. You are loved, you are needed, and you do MATTER! Be blessed by being a blessing.

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What are you going to be remembered for...

In my quest to make a difference, I realized that what we produce and the people we surround ourselves with matter. Sometimes we won't always have the right formula for success, but as my Bishop says; "How do you spell Success"? What may work for me may not work for you and so on and so forth. A lot of things that make the most impact have been tested and tried and initially failed. I have to always remind myself that where I am going is so much better than where I've been. So, even in deciding to be great and do what others wouldn't do you have to always remember to Live and own your happiness. What's the sense in doing the unthinkable if you're not going to wrap yourself in joy and stand on peace.


My motivation is ME and the experiences I've gone through in my life. You have to believe in you and for those that are with you in the process they have to be equip to go the distance. I stress all of the time about non believers and dream killers, but if you have those people around it only leaves you room to second guess yourself and your dreams. Fight for what it is that is important to you, never lose faith, never forget it could have been the other way, and always be thankful for those that helped you along the way. Everything we release in the atmosphere and everything we do matters, so; What will you be remembered for?

Me and my aunt Sandra at book signing

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In Everything, Give Thanks...

Well look at the time! Ha! Caught you off guard today huh? Well, here I am and however late it is in the day I pray you have had a productive one. Ok! I know you're wondering what do I have in store for you all this evening and I can't wait to share it. I use to have a life of privilege and was accustomed to nice things, but in order for God to get my attention he had to strip those things away. I always wondered why was it that when God wants to get our attention he touches those things that we hold near and dear. Well I found out that sometimes all God wants from us is the same attention that we give those material things, people, and jobs we have in our lives.

How does this tell me about being thankful Heather? Well, I will tell you. Do you ever wonder why it is you go through some of the things you face at times? Maybe it's because you have lost your place and God needs to know if he can trust you. We often times ask God for miracles, increase, and numerous other blessings and forget about the mere fact that he thought enough of us to wake us this morning, or the fact that you were able to put a key into a door and open it and the door you walked into led you into the house that he favored you with, and lets not forget that he thought enough of us to allow you the opportunity to just exhist.

By now you should be blinking your eyes, moving the arms you have mobility of, shaking your legs that you were able to stand on, and opening your mouth and just saying; "Thank You Lord". Because someone didn't wake up this morning, someone lost all they had, someones life was forever changed in an instance and we continue to go to him more than we just give him thanks. Matthew 25:23 says; " His lord said unto him, Well done, good and faithful servant; thou hast been faithful over a few things, I will make thee ruler over many things: enter thou into the joy of thy lord." Once God can recognize and you have proved to him that those "little things" can carry you just because of his grace and mercy in your life, then can he bless you. But, know for those of you who may feel like no matter how hard you try, things don't seem to be getting better; struggle not because even in your period of not having God has blessed you. I have been meditating on this song for the past two days and I pray it is more than a blessing to you!

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No greater love...

Good Monday morning to you all! Today I was redirected in what it was that I would share with you all and I am not complaining about it one bit. In our search to find peace in our storms, others stories of triumph or undying love help us to know that there is always a silver lining, or in my feature for today Ms. Kimberly Matthews- Hooker's case; a golden one. I got online this morning as i do daily to check on updates, news, and stories i may have missed out on and came across this picture.

And with this picture a story of fate, love, loss, healing, and union. Now, I have never done a feature before and for my readers that follow you know it had to be something extraordinary to lead me to do so. It all started at a Borders book store... What a beginning to a great ending! I won't go on and on because i want you to read this captivating story for yourselves and you too will find that in your reading (make sure to listen as well) you will be brought back to a place of just being thankful for what God has done in your life. I know I have on this fine morning. Sometimes the most tragic things in our lives give way to the most incredible comebacks. You gotta love the fact that God is just that good! Enjoy your read and tell a friend!

http://www.kimberlytmatthews.com/2011/09/borders-bookstore-african-american.html

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You can't stop my flow......

Good Friday to you all!! I know, I know, it's late getting to you. But, never fear Heather is here to give you your weekend motivation! Ever wondered why so many people look at you when you have a dream or idea as if it is unobtainable, or that you won't be able to make it if you stepped out of the box and did something different? Well, I'm here to answer that very question and put your mind at ease. Dream Killers is what they are called i.e: Those who look for others to fail or wishes for one not to succeed in order to show themselves credible. In other words those that wish they were you and can't for the life of them figure out why it is you're as blessed as you are. Now keep in mind a dream killer can be your friend, an associate, classmate, or even your family (it happens to the best of us). Today I wanted to give you the motivation to notice one of these posers and what to do when you encounter them. #1. If someone you hold near and dear says to you; "I will believe it when I see it", that my friend is a dream killer. #2. If they find every reason in the book why you shouldn't step out on faith and take a chance on your dreams. #3. If they can't find the joy in you doing something no one else had the courage to do you might just have found your dream killer. I've learned in my new beginning that everyone won't be happy for you and everyone won't see what you see when it comes to your visions and goals. but, be mindful of those people and keep them at bay because it's sad to say you may soon have to separate yourself from those very people. When God elevates you, be it spiritual, financially, educationally, or any other way your entire atmosphere has to adjust to the shift! That means you may lose a friend, a loved one, a family member along the way, but in the end you will know that they were not built for your new season. It also helps you in the future to notice these things before hand and as my Bishop says; "When I see crazy I cross the street". It's ok to love those people from a distance, it's okay to still speak and show them love when you see them. But, don't let these people be the death of you because they don't believe in you! Every time you are elevated take some time to evaluate the people who are around you. If they are not moving in the same direction as you are or taking notice of what it is you have been blessed with and wanting to know what it is they can do to get there too. Control+Alt+Delete!! The saying is true; "Birds of a feather, flock together". Have a great weekend and remember: "Your past is your past, so after you have dropped it off and left it don't go back and pick it up! Your future is bright"!

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It's HUMP Day!!!

Good morning! I've had a great week so far. Sunday was very inspirational as well as trying. A classmate of mine passed away; a mother, a daughter, a sister,  a friend, a joy to have ever met. Angela Suttles will be missed. Went to service with expectancy and God showed up unlike no other. something about when you are at your lowest, how God comes in and reminds you of the treasure you are. I'm thankful today just for the opportunity at getting another day to wake up and kiss my daughter and tell her "I love you". Sometimes we take for granted that in a second, an instance everything can change. Monday was my birthday and as I celebrated life my heart went out to those children who lost their mother, that mother who lost her daughter, and those siblings who lost their sister. I realize death is inevitable, but the process of healing from it has its struggles and setbacks. Don't ever get so comfortable with life that you forget to be thankful for what it is God has given you; even the little things. I'm constantly growing and with that I have a better understanding of the way my life should be. I recently dealt with losing a relationship that I held dear to my heart and I couldn't for the life of me understand why. After praying and seeking direction and insight about it all I found that we lose things in life sometimes for the good of us and where we are headed. Loss either breaks you or strengthens you. Remember who you are and don't lose sight of Him even in your storms. Live, Life, Love, and Laugh.... There is a time and a season for everything. It's Wednesday people, continue to chase pavements. Smile it gets better from here!

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Inspiration

Hello all!! I pray this Friday has been as beautiful as you've perceived it to be and much more! When I look for encouragement and inspiration I don't keep myself in a box. So, on today I want to share what made my day and I hope you enjoy it. Have a great weekend and let the little things become major inspiration....

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The mind is a terrible thing to waste...

So much going on in the news and in the world today. Makes me wonder how can I find happiness in everything good that is going on for me. When you know better, you do better and I've learned that in knowing better; that's just part of the task. Actions speaks louder than words and what is knowledge without putting all that you know to work? Today was a day of reflection for me, looking in the mirror and accepting what i see and I'm here to tell you I didn't like some of what was looking back at me. But, now I know what needs to be adjusted and with that I may be able to be a better person in it all. Change is always good, but it takes a made up mind to make it happen. Be the blessing you already are...

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It's A "S.H.E." Thing...

Hello! I've been on a fast this week and I also have been busy with works to get things locked in for a benefit I am having in my hometown of Albany, Ga. Giving and serving has become a platform for me and I didn't quite expect any of it. I am a servant and that's where my heart is; truly God knows best. I've never been this excited to give back in my life and to have two beautiful souls to assist me is more than a blessing! Portia J. Clyde of Portia's got wings and Lashonda "L.B." Brown of P.G.E (pretty girl ent.) have been so helpful and a Godsend. These ladies have a story of their own, so watch out for them both. I've been stuck on the scripture that I got for the website and this is what I will leave with you all. Proverbs 12:13 says; Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a dream fulfilled is a tree of life. What seeds are you planting? Stay focused and be the blessing that you already are. Check us out on the event website and if you are interested in being apart of this event to raise funds and awareness for cancer and ms (multiple sclerosis)and sign our guestbook while you're there www.wix.com/itsa_shething/benefit also follow us on twitter @itsa_shething email us itsa_shething@yahoo.com and like us on facebook!

                                                                                 

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Hello, Goodmorning!

My weekend was a very eventful one to say the least. I never knew truly living life would be so amazing until I allowed God to take control. I know, I know I don't wanna bore you with all of this Jesus talk, but if you tried him for yourself I swear you would understand where I was coming from. I remember when I would club every night of the week and give my money to the bartender and the club owner for a couple hours of excitement. But, once I allowed God to take control those things didn't appeal to me like they used to. Now, it's more important for me to give him my time and money that way I know I'm not wasting it. Which leads me to this. How can you look at your giving to God, the one who is the ultimate provider, protector, lover, and keeper of everything that is you as a burden? I used to have a life most people wanted, but if they only knew what it cost me to have they would soon take there thoughts back. I ran from God knowing full well where I belonged and that made it that much harder for me to ignore. Why does it take us hitting that brick wall or losing everything we have to realize it's so much easier to just let go? Whatever we go through God allows it one way or the other and if we are getting by it's because he allows it. But, once he is tired of waiting consequences follow. Being anointed isn't easy and it cost more than most are willing to sacrifice. But, one thing I've learned is that the people who God chooses are not the ones who have it all together. He chooses the ones who have gone through the most and endured the worst because their testimony and lives can be used to help others in such a way that you truly see his power in their capacity to change and be transformed from what "was" to what he has called them to be. Nothing is impossible for God and I don't even know how I got away from talking about giving, but whatever the reason I am going to say to you who may be reading, you may feel like you are not fit to be used, someone may have you thinking you are not worthy and that there is no hope. But, I've been told and have lived and believe that once you make a conscious decision to give things over to a power much stronger than yourself all things begin to work out. But, you have to believe that no matter how they look right now it gets better as the days go by. The encouragement for today is: prayer unlocks the doors, but faith is what will take them off the henges! Be blessed and be a blessing to someone else. Love isn't love until you've given it away!


Dewayne Woods- Let go Let God

                                                                                                                         

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The jokes on you...

Morning all!! It's Friday!! Some of you have had a wonderful week while some may have had to drag yourself through it all, but regardless of how you finished the week you made it!!! I have been dealing with emotions and feelings lately and whatever I go through I try to make it a learning tool for myself or someone that it may be beneficial to. Let's just say a lot of the things we deal with on a day to day are more emotional than we think. If someone says something that doesn't sit well with you, we immediately act out of emotions. Even if we don't say a word our feelings are activated in that instance. I'm learning to be more mindful of how I allow others to affect me with their words, actions, and impulses. The more you give in to someone else's plot to break your spirit the more power you give that person to manipulate your actions and your words. The easiest way to deal with a problem is to get to the root of it and nip it (in my Barney Fife voice), in the bud! You can kill a  number of things that are meant to make you doubt yourself or feel bad by the responses you give. Instead of getting upset about certain things I in turn redirect that into a positive and you will be surprised at the response you get from those whose aim was to upset your world! In all things you must work smart and not hard. If I would use anything to encourage you on today I would say to you; never underestimate who you are or whose you are. But, to those who don't know about the power of words you should be aware that they can either shape or break your future so use them wisely. Even the people who have talked about you and speculated deserve to be treated kind and yes I am well aware of what I am saying. It's called "forgiveness and love" and it takes some time to get to this point. I am still a student so my learning is constant. Proverbs 18:21 says; "Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof." So with that being said; What is your daily bread? Are you speaking life or killing spirits? Here is a little inspiration to get your day off to a great one! And as always make tracks in life that no one can cover up.


Jason Nelson I Shall Live

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The point of it all..

Good morning all! This morning I woke up feeling kinda groggy, but never the less I am thankful. Listening to some Rihanna to get my day going and begin to think about relationships. What would be the perfect relationship? I know many of us have different views on what is and what isn't the crem de la crem'. In my quest for growth I have learned so much about myself that I never knew and that changed a lot of the way that I thought about relationships as a whole. Honestly, have you gotten to know the best of you before you decided to get involved with someone? Don't bust your brain trying to answer that question because if your honest the answer is no. I thought I knew myself until I had to be put into a situation where I had no choice but learn to be content and happy alone. Trust me the process wasn't easy because I had never been alone and as far as I can remember I always had a man in my life. I actually felt bad when I found out that I had to cope without what I considered to be security. Trust me in the beginning it was not easy, but as time progressed things got better. Once you begin to accept things about you that others have had to deal with you get a better respect for people in general. A lot of the things I found out about myself were not good, but me being alone has given me time to work on those things. How can we be good for or with someone when we are not happy with ourselves? I wonder if we ever stop to say "let me make sure I'm ready" instead of just making decisions based on our emotions as we often times do. I was so clouded at one point in life that I really didn't know what love was and when it came to me genuinly in the form of a relationship I didn't know how to process it. So, that lead me to another question. If you have no idea of what love is; how can you receive it without thinking there are motives behind it or be able to give that same love back? These things are not as complicated as they seem, but they are important. My grandmother used to tell us that love is what it does, I have found that to be so true. Love is more than a mere word its an action and to live it and walk in it you have to know that it won't always be the best. We live life and experience a range of things but at the end of the day love is what will remain. So, when you're confused about what you want out of life and where it is you think you should be do a self check and see if you are satisfied with the results you come up with. Have a great day and smile...

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Albany!!!! Pre Order Your Copies Now!!!

Hey Albany!!!! I've been thinking and I've decided for those that just find it impossible to get your hands on a copy of the book; I've found the solution!! Three (3) Simple easy steps you can do. #1 Go to my website @ www.wix.com/jheather13/booksite  #2 click on contact tab #3 leave your info (name and phone number) and someone will contact you as soon as possible! Thank you guys for your support and I am so greatful for the love my city has shown me. The best is yet to come...

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Family matters...

I pray you all have enjoyed your holiday and with that your families. I have learned that we don't choose our family, but they teach us more about life and dealing with others better than anyone can. If you can bare ups and downs with family, lies, envy, jealousy, love, hurt, happiness, disappointments, support, neglect, and being talked about; you can handle the world!!! We don't have to like our family but at the end of the day you find the comfort in knowing that no matter what your family will be there. Oh! and just to make it plain your family can be anyone who genuinly shows you love and support and are there for you. Doesn't have to be the family you were birth to and I know I may get alot of flack for that, but it is something to think about. Stay positive and positive will find you.

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Just a little will do.

As I sit here this morning with tears in my eyes, I am thankful that I haven't been left behind. God does things in his own timing and what we think about it has no affect on him either way. If how we wanted to do things were the way; then why is it that he is our saviour. I've had to recover from things and have been at times at a loss for words. Sometimes not even being able to pray a single prayer because the damage of what I had gone through took that much out of me. But, the thought of just me being thankful filled the gap when I couldn't say it. I always want my worship and my thanks to be real and somehow along the way I got lost, but I didn't leave and that makes all of the difference in where he takes me next. For the first time in a long time I prayed and God allowed me to have the words to say and it wasn't even about me. I'm full this morning because it didn't take a long time and it didn't take much for me to get into his presence. He was there all of the time for such a time as this. I'm at my lowest, yet God found a way to lift me up. Do you ever consider what it takes to be as forgiving and merciful as he is? I never know how much it cost to see my sins up on the cross... Just a little, but it says a multitude. That's why I worship him, that's why I can be an open book and tell how he brought me out. He didn't have to do what he did in dying to save me or you, but he did. Be more than, be greater than, be just who he has called you to be. Whatever area of life you are in know that he loves you and you're worth far more than just your job or your title. He's turning it around just for you! Do more than the usual, be more than the expected. God is still in control.

Kim Burrell @ Jamm Conference 2011

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IT AIN'T OVER.......

Today has been nothing but BLESSED! Funny when you’re face with adversity God allows all of those things to work out for your good. I always wondered when I would go through things it’s so intense and now, I’m coming to recognize I’m just built for it! Giving up can’t be the option right now in my life and it shouldn’t be in yours either! Issues, circumstances, whatever your thorn is there is nothing impossible for God to show you just how much he loves you and wants nothing but the best for you. No matter what “they” say, he has the final say! Victory isn’t always easy, so after the fight look around just to see who’s still standing. Some people don’t think that miracles happen, but yes they are still being performed, the unthinkable is still being accomplished, the unheard is still being spoken, and the unseen is still visible; even if they don’t want to see it. Because, IT AIN'T OVER TILL GOD SAYS IT'S OVER.... bless you and continue to live your dreams out loud!!! Continue to fight, pray, fast, believe, press, progress, move, read, intercede, trust, try, travail, give, go, but most of all continue to LIVE!!! I’m overwhelmed because the enemy put up a good fight but I got some come back in me! It ain’t over… Bishop Hope I love you for continuing to breath Gods love into my life.

Maurette Brown Clark: It Ain't Over

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Where it all started!!

I remember when this book of mine had not even been in circulation a month and this young woman whom I had known from our hometown of Albany, Ga said that she would be interviewing me to feature on her website. I was so excited and gracious to know that she would be setting time aside to get the word out about my new project. Halaveshia Hall who has a story of her own to tell is a great addition to the blog world with her blog Kaidys Face which is dedicated to her daughter who is affectionately named Kaidy. I traveled to Atlanta, Ga for this interview and didn't know once I arrived how God would move on my behalf just because of the connections we had in our lives. I get emotional thinking about the chance encounter we had that day after the interview and how she shared so much with me as we sat in Buckhead and took in lunch together. You're never too old to learn and boy do I learn a thing or two from this virtuous woman! While you check out her site check out the feature interview of yours truly!!!
http://www.kaidysface.com/2011/06/kaidys-face-spotlight.html?spref=fb

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I see a window...

When doors are open you walk through them, but when windows are open blessings are poured into them! I had another chance to be interviewed by a young woman by the name of Jay'l Harris and I for one will say that she shocked me with the questions she posed. I so enjoyed the interview, the phone call she gave me, and the fact that it all came from networking!! I have the key to my future and I am using every chance I get. God forever gets the credit for choosing me and my continued prayer is that he keeps me grounded and humble. I know too many people who have been blessed beyond measure and lose it all because once they got it they forgot to give God what he is due which is time, money, our minds, and our hearts. It's great to live life and enjoy the fruits of your labor but in order to have those things multiply you can NEVER forget!!!! I'm just saying, just give him what he's due and I promise what he will give you in return will blow your mind!!! I'm on fire and the only thing that can put me out is if God gives me a lighthouse!! So check out my feature on this talented bloggers website Ms. Jay'l Harris and tell me what you think!! Be blessed and know that you already are!
http://www.jaylharris.org/2011/08/exraordinary-friday-author-jheather.html

Canton Jones Window

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Being featured is such a blessing!!!!

Some say FAVOR is overrated, but I say to those people; You clearly don't know or believe in my GOD!!! I was honored and blessed to be featured on one of today's movers and shakers website. Mrs Kimberly Matthews-Hooker is her name and if you don't know her by now books are her game!!! This merchantship of a woman thought enough of little ole' me and offered me a space on her website. Now if that ain't a blessing running you down I don't know what is. I step out on faith daily and failure was deleted from my vocabulary and replaced with the word OVERCOMER! So while you are here on her website seeing all that this powerhouse of a woman has to offer, check out my feature and get to know more about your favorite Author Heather Johnson!
http://www.kimberlytmatthews.com/

Goapele- Closer

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Good Day Morning Show

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This is where you get it!!

Everyone is asking where they can purchase the book!!! Well here it is folks!! Click the book to get your copy today!!!

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Be Encouraged and KNOW!!!

Today I'm encouraged to encourage others that despite your current situation and/or circumstance things are never as bad as they seem. I always look at the glass half full because things surely could have been the other way. Whatever goals, dreams, aspirations, ideas, or thoughts you may be having that seem unobtainable take the time and put it down on paper and I swear things will be more clear to u and that dream will be that much closer to coming true. "It only takes a spark to get a get a fire going"... This is a part from a song that I sang in the choir as a child and as I think back on it now it is so relevant and true. I am a testament that anything is possible and that regardless of the odds against you if it is meant for you no matter who is against it it will happen. I'm learning everyday that people who don't know can't grow so I don't get so upset anymore about those who don't believe. God couldn't have placed me in a better place at a better time than this. I am convinced that his will shall be done concerning my life and everything in it. Lately I have been led to help motivate, push, and encourage others and even if it's not about me that's OK. I'm just happy I could be apart of something great. We miss our blessings sometimes so busy worrying about ourselves, but I now know that I can be blessed just by the mere act of blessing someone else. So Continue to strive for greatness and though there will be rainstorms that may come to cloud your judgement, I'd rather get wet and go thru the storm than to stay dry and not experience anything that may help me later on in life. Just had to get this out and i hope all of the rambling at least triggered something in someone who is reading. Be blessed and know that you already are....

Donald Lawrence and Tri City Singers- Encourage Yourself

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